| JC's profileJC's Blog of SolitudePhotosBlogLists |  Tools  Help |
|
October 03 To conquer a man's heart.....As the old saying goes, " to conquer a man's heart is through his stomach.".............. Well, I personally find it not true. Why? To be honest, My girl friend can't really cook well, but then she has already dominated my heart, that's why! The pictures that you see was during the dinner time of my anniversary. Picture numero uno is "Sweet and Sour Pork" hmm.... which she put too much flour in the meat to make it kinda feel like you are eating fry flour, worst still it was covered with sweet and sour sauce which made it ....... kinda funny. Picture numero duo is "Fried Long beans with Garlic and Meat Balls" ..... it was good. Just nice and simple which in a way was my favourite that night. And Numero Trio is "Stewed Tofu with soya milk and meat" I have to admit that was my failure cause i bought the wrong type of Soya Milk. It was suppose to be plain soya milk , but instead i bought the sweet one....... in which made the stew sweet and salty. Sigh........ Thousand years of training, lost in one strike........ Though I complain much, still I was truly blessed to have someone that care for me cook for me..... As my papa always say," women can't cook properly unless they have a man who has a picky tongue, so teach her..." and that I find is true!!!!!! October 01 My 2nd anniversary YOHOHO!! It's the time of the year again today. Yes, it's my 2nd very happy anniversary with my beautiful lady, Tzy Yan ;-). Today is the mark for me to recap all the things I have done with her for the past one year. These memories are sometimes happy, there were also sad times, angry times, joyeous times, fustrated times, annoying times, good times and bad times....... all and all this year was definately a very meaningful year for the both of us. Finding a girl to court is easy, courtship is always exciting whether you succeed in the in end, after the sucessful courting phase, then comes a relationship more intimate than friends, intimacy is fun, then it comes sharing every detail of your life. The exploration and fun part comes to an end in time, where everything seems bored and everything becomes a routine. This is where the biggest challenge comes in. The determination to maintaining the relationship and move on. Many have succeeded and many have died in battle. Obstacles in a relationship are bound o happen every now and then. They come in the guise of time limitation, misunderstanding, lack of passion, distance, materialistic needs, 3rd party involvement, etc, etc. I personally endured a few of the items I myself describe earlier. The first thing to do when you see these buggers coming in is to eliminate it as soon as possible. These buggers are cancerious, the longer you take to address it, the worst it gets. The only question you and I mean THE ONLY QUESTION to ask yourself is that , "do you really love your better half until you will do everything in your power to make it better?" If the answer is "Yes", then you will know what to do. It is the same when "No" is the answer. I really cherish the relationship I have with Tzy Yan. Therefore, whenever we encounter such buggers, I make sure I be honest and be frank wih her, vice versa. Good communication is essential, honesty is needed with the speaker, rational reasoning is for the listener. Most important is the trust that you have built in the duration of the relationship. Without that, all the above mention is not valid. For the readers of this blog, I hope that my telescopic view on the topic of relation will show some sort of light in your wonderful and fruitful relationship between you and your better half. As for myself, I will continue doing what I do and hope that in the many days to come, our love will get better and only better.......... shite... i totally forgot!!!If my dear friend, Raymond did not send me a message the other that, I would have totally forgotten that I did not put in my entries for the past few months. It was not that I want to use the excuse of time limitation, but then I do not have any other excuses to give my blog. Oh Bloggie........ I was wrong to neglect you, I will try to make it up to up by filling up more and more or your spaces.... I'll stuff you life a Christmas Turkey :) |
|
|
